Why are women so complicated? I've never met one woman who could be normal..........?

This is not to be taken offense to, but I have never met one female in my life ( that includes my own mom ) who had emotional stability, a rational mind, and were cool when something bad happended. It's like their brains are incapable of handling stressful cirstances and they go overboard with emotion's. I only say this because of my messed up dating life. I am a nice guy but with alot of backbone. I am good to them and that scares them. It shouldn't but they always come up with reason's why they can't talk to me anymore and it hurt's me. It is like I am not allowed to voice my own opinions, have anything my way, and they just don't know how to have a genuine argument or conversation without having issue's arise. I know I am smart to be single but I think God really messed up when he constructed female's from the male body but who know's. I just want an answer preferable from men and non feministic women who have something valuable to say, nothing rude or smart a@@.