How can I act towards my bf at dinner tonight (read more)?

I have been mad at him for numerous things, so it's like a "make-up" dinner tonight. I don't want to be grudgey and unpleasant to be around, nor do I want to be like everything's just fine and dandy now. How can I make him not take me for granted without being too hard or easy? I turned down invites all week to see him and hadn't been returning his calls, so this morningI did. I don't want the tables to be turned to seem like I'm the bad one for having avoided him which is what it feels like, but he's the one who had done a couple of bad things to begin with.